The Tumblr blog too brain fogged for this offers up what I think is a nearly perfect answer to an anonymously submitted question. The questioner seems to be reacting to the blogger's frequent posting about ways people with disabilities are treated poorly … and wants to know how people with disabilities should be treated.
The answer, in a word, is "Listen", but please do
read the whole piece, it explains so much so well, so honestly, and so efficiently.