Variations on the following exchange happen all the time ...
Disabled person: “Society is ableist! Disabled people are oppressed by ableism!”
Disabled person: “Society is ableist! Disabled people are oppressed by ableism!”
Non-disabled person: “You’re exaggerating. Things are so much better than they used to be!"
Disabled person: “#$%&! All the restaurants in my neighborhood have steps, and the ones with ramps have inaccessible bathrooms!”
Non-disabled person: “Really? That can’t be right, it's against the law!”
Disabled person: “Are you kidding me?”
Non-disabled person: “What?!”
Disabled person: “Never mind …”
Non-disabled person: "You should really speak to the managers about this …”
Disabled person: “You think I haven’t tried?!”
Non-disabled person: “Well, if you talk to them like that, you won’t get anywhere …”
Disabled person: "#$%&!”
Non-disabled person: “Well, if educating the owners doesn’t work, just file an ADA complaint. ”
Disabled person: “You think that will do any good? The only way it would help would be if I could afford the time and money to sue, but I can’t. Pretty much nobody can.”
Non-disabled person: “ … “
Non-disabled person: “You still shouldn’t be so angry. Nobody will listen to a chronically complaining hothead.”
Disabled person: “But, society is ableist! Ableism holds me back all the time!”
… and so on, and so on.
Quite often, the second person in the conversation is another disabled person who has also experienced discrimination and architectural barriers, but has a fundamentally different view and temperament about them. I’m pretty sure this is true because I have been that other disabled person who objected to anger and tried to explain to another disabled person how the ADA works.
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